The Dreamer's Pen

There’s something quietly powerful about choosing to live life as art.

I used to spend a lot of energy trying to explain myself—why I felt things so deeply, why I noticed small details that others overlooked, why I never quite fit in no matter how hard I tried. Being an INFJ means constantly walking the line between connection and solitude, between passion and peace. It’s lonely sometimes. But it’s also rich with beauty.

Lately, I’ve been leaning into that. Choosing to romanticize life—not in a performative or picture-perfect way, but in a way that feels deeply real to me. It’s lighting a candle when I journal. Drinking tea out of a real cup, not a to-go one. Listening to music that cracks me wide open. Making eye contact with the wind and letting it ruin my hair. Letting life feel poetic, even when it’s hard.

This is the idea behind my latest video: “Romanticizing Life: A Journey of Embracing My Uniqueness.”

In it, I talk about how stepping into my uniqueness helped me stop chasing belonging in the wrong places. I share how I started noticing the small, sacred moments that make life feel alive—how beauty often hides in the pauses, in the quiet, in the parts of ourselves we once tried to hide.

This video is soft. It’s reflective. It’s 100% me.

And I hope it inspires you to soften into yourself too. To stop asking for permission to be different. To celebrate your inner world. To romanticize your life, not for the aesthetic… but because you deserve to fall in love with being alive.

Here’s to living deeply, quietly, beautifully—on our own terms.

Watch the full video here:

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