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  • October 9, 2025

    The 4 INFJ Subtypes

    What an interesting video. I can relate to The Oracle, The Empath, and The Perfectionist versions of the INFJ. Continue reading

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    Authenticity, creative-writing, infj, life, Self Reflection
  • October 9, 2025

    I Can’t Get Enough of The Police

    I absolutely love The Police! They’re one of my favorite bands in the world! Sting is pure genius and the way their music blends complexity with such irresistible fun blows me away every time. Their songs are intricate, catchy, a little ethereal, and fun to listen to. Honestly, I could get lost in their music… Continue reading

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    70s rock, 80s rock, Inspiration, rock, self-discovery, sting, the police
  • October 7, 2025

    The Reset

    I had to take the day off today. My stomach has been upset, and I just couldn’t push through it like I usually do. While lying in bed, I realized I’ve fallen back into some old patterns. The kind where I eat out of convenience instead of intention. I’ve been grabbing what’s easy and not… Continue reading

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    experiences, health, wellness, women’s health
  • October 5, 2025

    Hot Pretzels. Cool Saxophone.

    Some days, I just want to disappear into something simple… you know… flour, water, salt, and sugar! Baking has always felt like therapy to me: the kind you don’t have to explain to anyone. This time it was pretzels. I didn’t plan anything special – just a slow, afternoon, a warm oven, and the sound… Continue reading

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    art, Authenticity, baking, creativity, dough, germany, pretzel, self-discovery, sultry, YouTube
  • October 4, 2025

    A Night of Opera and Old Glamour

    Last night I attended a historic performance at Tacoma’s Pantages Theater; The first part of Wagner’s Der Ring des Nibelungen – Das Rheingold. It was a night filled with music, history, and emotion. But what made it truly special wasn’t just the performance. It was what I decided to wear. I pulled out my old… Continue reading

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    art, blue collar, connection, DivineFeminine, experiences, femininity, gowns, grateful, gratitude, life, love, moments, mother, my life, old Hollywood, opera, Pacific Northwest, Pantages, passion, pearls, positive thoughts, relationships, self expression, Self Reflection, SensualNotSexual, stage, Tacoma, Tacoma Olympia, thankful, vintage gown, Wagner, Washington, working class
  • October 2, 2025

    Freedom!

    Sometimes you need to let loose and dance! Continue reading

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    art, Authenticity, creativity, dancing, infj, Self Reflection
  • October 2, 2025

    October!

    Disclaimer: I fell askeep before I had the opportunity to post this. It is a day late. I can’t believe it’s already October 1. It honestly feels like it was just January. The leaves are changing so quickly into the most beautiful, vibrant jewel tones. I love jewel tones! They’re so elegant and seeing them… Continue reading

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    autumn, blog, Dachshund, experiences, fall, fashion, life, Zen
  • September 30, 2025

    A Stormy Fall Day and the Façade That’s Cracking

    Today turned out to be a really stormy day. It feels like fall now, especially after a warm, sunny weekend. The wind was blowing , the rain was pouring, and the leaves were falling all over the ground. Honestly, it’s kind of beautiful if you actually stop and look. Normally, I’m not a huge fan… Continue reading

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    autumn, banana bread, blog, Coffee, experiences, fall, Growth, reflection, Self Reflection, self-discovery, Zen
  • September 29, 2025

    Living Simply: Finding Coziness in the Old World

    Fall is here and the days get shorter, I naturally slow down. Fall and winter have always been seasons that invite me to slow down my pace, to notice, and of course, to make things cozy. I don’t crave anything glossy or modern this time of year. It’s the mismatched, the handmade and the old… Continue reading

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    cozy, creative-writing, deep-thoughts, fall, gown, knitting, old, opera, vintage, winter
  • September 28, 2025

    Coward

    He shows up when it’s easy, And vanishes when it’s hard. Leaves words like empty cups, and thinks the silence won’t be heard. Continue reading

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    coward, deep-thoughts, life, Self Reflection
  • September 28, 2025

    Food For Thought

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    deep-thoughts, ego
  • September 26, 2025

    Dust

    They glitter loud in the daylight, their names echo in crowded rooms, their hands collect applause like coins. They live in the sun where eyes always follow, where the air is thick with wanting. And me? I drift like a speck unseen, quiet as ash, soft as twilight, no spotlight to pin me down. But… Continue reading

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    deep-thoughts, dust, infj, life, Self Reflection
  • September 25, 2025

    A New Era

    I have decided to end one sided relationships. I will no longer invest my energy in people who do not value our connection as much as I do. I refuse to be used to boost someone else’s ego. From now on, I will focus on building relationships that are genuine, authentic, and reciprocal. I desire… Continue reading

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    deep-thoughts, Growth, infj, Inspiration, life, love, relationships, Self Reflection, self-discovery
  • September 24, 2025

    Four Years Later: Remembering My Mom

    Today marks four years since my mom passed away. Four years and yet it feels like it happened yesterday. Her death was sudden, shocking, and completely flipped the world my dad and I knew. She had been having health issues during Covid, and because of the pandemic, she couldn’t get the care she desperately needed.… Continue reading

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    death, experiences, feeler, funeral, germany, grief, Growth, healing, heartache, inner-work, love, medicine, mental health, Mindfulness, mother, my life, pain, women’s health
  • September 23, 2025

    Unpicked

    Leaves fall, winds may pass, I root deep despite the frost, Unpicked, yet I stand. Continue reading

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    autumn, connection, creativity, deep-thoughts, fall, feeler, feelings, grief, haiku, heartache, moments, pain, reflection, self care
  • September 23, 2025

    Happy First Day of Fall

    (Disclaimer: I meant to post this yesterday but I crashed and slept for 15 hours. So here I am, posting the following day instead. I feel so much better after the long sleep.) I left work early because I just couldn’t push through anymore. I haven’t slept well in two days and my body finally… Continue reading

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    autumn, deep-thoughts, experiences, fall, feelings, grief, infj, Intuition, life, mental health, reflection, Self Reflection, sleep
  • September 21, 2025

    Autumn’s Goddess — A Candlelit Night

    I’ve finally finished editing my latest video, stepping into the night as autumn’s goddess. Candles flickered all around me, a single pumpkin glowing softly, and I moved slowly, letting the shadows and light trace my steps. Everything felt suspended – the leaves, the air, the hush of the season. Over the video, I read my… Continue reading

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    art, artist, artistic, Authenticity, autumn, body image, celestial, creative-art, creative-writing, creativity, dance, dark, dream big, emotions, enneagram4w5, existentialism, fall, feeler, FemininePower, femininity, fertility, fun, goddess, grateful, healing, Inspiration, Intuition, literature, love, love letter, Mindfulness, moon, MUSIC, my life, nature, night, passion, philosophy, pixie hair, reflection, refreshing, romance, romantic, seasons, self expression, Self portrait, Self Reflection, sensuality, September, short hair, soulful, spiritual, stars, strength, thankful, whimsy, witches, writing, YouTube
  • September 21, 2025

    Painting in the Glow

    Tonight my dad and I went to Pinot’s Palette for a blacklight paint and sip. The room glowed with neon colors and under the black lights our paintings slowly came alive with a spooky kind of magic. You can watch the timelapse here: Art has always been something we’ve shared. When I was little, my… Continue reading

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    art, artist, artistic, black light, black light art, connection, dad, dark, deep-thoughts, experiences, fall, feeler, fun, Growth, hobbies, Learning, moments, moon, paint, paint and sip, painting, relationships, September, whimsy, writing, YouTube
  • September 20, 2025

    Coming Soon – A New Video

    A glimpse of what I’ve been creating… a video woven with candlelight, whispers, and fall’s breath. Continue reading

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    Authenticity, autumn, creativity, infj, Self Reflection, velvet, video, YouTube, Zen
  • September 18, 2025

    The Accuracy . . .

    Let’s talk about philosophy, conspiracy theories, and serial killers! Continue reading

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    infj, MBTI
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I’m Stefanie, a reflective soul, a creative thinker, musician, educator, and an INFJ navigating life’s complexities one thought at a time.

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