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  • May 17, 2025

    Limbo

    Edges blur and fade A soul drifts in hollow space Yearning without home. Continue reading

    Blogging
    deep-thoughts, infj, moon, Poetry, Self Reflection
  • May 13, 2025

    The Woman I Saw in Myself: Loving Katharine Hepburn

    There are women I admire. And then there are women who remind me of myself before I had language for who I was. Katharine Hepburn is that woman. I can’t tell you the first time I saw her, I don’t mean watched her, I mean felt her. That sudden stillness in my chest, like someone… Continue reading

    Blogging
    blog, creative-writing, deep-thoughts, enneagram, enneagram4w5, femininity, infj, Inspiration, Katharine Hepburn, love, mental health, old Hollywood, Poetry, positive thoughts, purpose, self care, Self Reflection, self-discovery, Spencer Tracey, Zen
  • May 12, 2025

    The Art of Fragrance: Memory, Mystery, and Musky Skin

    There was a time in my life when I worked behind a fragrance and cosmetics counter at a large department store. The lights were soft but flattering, the glass counters sparkled, and I was surrounded by bottles—tiny, elegant sculptures filled with emotion. That’s what perfume is, really: emotion in liquid form. Back then, I didn’t… Continue reading

    Blogging
    Authenticity, fragrance, perfume, Self Reflection
  • May 12, 2025

    My First Week Back at Work After Surgery: A Humbling Reminder

    Coming back to work after surgery felt like walking into a space I once knew but now had to relearn. I told myself I’d ease back in, be gentle with my body, honor the healing process. And I really thought I understood what that meant. But this first week? It reminded me how much I… Continue reading

    Blogging
    Academia, creative-writing, deep-thoughts, dermoid cyst, Growth, health, Higher Education, recovery, Self Reflection, surgery, women’s health
  • May 4, 2025

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    Blogging
    Authenticity, cast, deep-thoughts, infj, Oscar Wilde, Self Reflection, stage
  • May 4, 2025

    The People and Forces I Look to for Guidance

    List the people you admire and look to for advice… In life, we often find ourselves seeking wisdom, understanding, and direction from those who have shaped us, whether they are people, moments, or even invisible forces. For me, my guidance comes from a combination of both tangible and intangible sources that help me navigate the… Continue reading

    Blogging
    Authenticity, blog, community, connection, consciousness, creative-writing, dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1928, deep-thoughts, experiences, feeler, feelings, Growth, heartache, inner-work, Intuition, Learning, love, mental health, Mindfulness, moments, mother, positive thoughts, purpose, relationships, self care, Self Reflection, self-discovery, stars, writing
  • April 29, 2025

    Surprise! I Finally Got My Hair Done—And It Felt Like Coming Back to Life

    It’s wild how much we can put off when we’re just trying to survive. For me, something as simple as a hair appointment slowly became this massive emotional hurdle. I hadn’t been to a real salon since before my mom passed away—over 4.5 years ago. And then, earlier this year, I had surgery, which took… Continue reading

    Blogging, YouTube
    Authenticity, femininity, hair, inner-work, pixie hair, self care, self-discovery, short hair, surgery, YouTube
  • April 24, 2025

    Introducing The Dreamer’s Soul — My YouTube Channel for Deep Feelers, Thinkers, and Dreamers

    There’s a space between the written word and the spoken one, where feeling, reflection, and raw honesty live. That’s the space I created The Dreamer’s Soul for. It’s more than just a YouTube channel. It’s a visual extension of everything I carry in my heart, the thoughts I can’t always capture in writing, and the… Continue reading

    Blogging
    Authenticity, blog, videos, Vlogs, YouTube
  • April 22, 2025

    Romanticizing Life as an INFJ: Why I Stopped Trying to Fit In

    There’s something quietly powerful about choosing to live life as art. I used to spend a lot of energy trying to explain myself—why I felt things so deeply, why I noticed small details that others overlooked, why I never quite fit in no matter how hard I tried. Being an INFJ means constantly walking the… Continue reading

    YouTube
    4w5, artistic, Authenticity, AuthenticLiving, blog, creative-art, infj, MainCharacterEnergy, RomanticizeYourLife, YouTube
  • April 20, 2025

    Easter Thoughts from the Back Row at Benaroya

    Happy Easter. I’m currently nursing a head cold and still recovering from surgery, so today looks like tissues, tea, and sweatpants. Not exactly the fresh start kind of energy Easter is known for, but it’s real. Yesterday, though, I managed to leave the house for the first time in four weeks. I went to a… Continue reading

    2025, art, Blogging, deep-thoughts, infj
    classical music, deep-thoughts, easter, existential crisis, existentialism, infj, life, my life, recovery, salpingo-oophorectomy, tired, VIOLA, who am i?
  • April 14, 2025

    Over the Moon in Opera Alley: My Favorite Restaurant and a Love Letter to Romance

    What is your favorite restaurant? Some places feed your body. Others feed your spirit.And then, there are places like Over the Moon Café, where the food is unforgettable, yes, but the feeling? That’s what lingers. Tucked away in Tacoma’s Opera Alley, Over the Moon isn’t flashy or loud. In fact, you could walk right past… Continue reading

    food, Journaling
    aesthetic, celestial, dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1908, food, over the moon Café, restaurants, romance, romantic, Tacoma
  • April 12, 2025

    Food for thought…

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    art, Authenticity, creative, deep-thoughts, Enneagram 4w5, feelings, Growth, infj, MBTI
    Authenticity, be different, consciousness, deep-thoughts, enneagram4w5, experiences, feeler, infj, uniqueness, van gogh
  • April 11, 2025

    BINGO!!!!

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    Authenticity, infj, MBTI
    Authenticity, bingo, enneagram, fun, infj, MBTI
  • April 11, 2025

    Soft Toes & Soothing Moments: A Pedicure After the Pain

    It’s been a minute since I treated myself, and today felt like the perfect time. I got a much-needed pedicure and let me just say, it felt amazing. Like, close your eyes and sigh kind of amazing. The warm water, the gentle scrubbing, the soft touch on my skin—it all felt extra special this time.… Continue reading

    Blogging
    experiences, pedicure, recovery, self care, surgery, tension
  • April 10, 2025

    Dear INFJ: Letter #3 – You Were Never Meant to Be Small

    Dear INFJ, You’ve spent so much of your life folding yourself into quieter versions of who you are. You learned how to dim your light, not because it wasn’t bright, but because it made others squint. You learned how to carry other people’s pain without them even asking, like it was your job, your purpose,… Continue reading

    Authenticity, Blogging, creative, deep-thoughts, Enneagram 4w5, feeler, feelings, Growth, infj, Journaling, love, Mindfulness, purpose, reflection, Self Reflection
    Authenticity, connection, consciousness, dearinfj, deep-thoughts, dream big, emotions, enneagram, enneagram4w5, experiences, feeler, feelings, femininity, Growth, infj, INFP, inner-work, Inspiration, Intuition, Learning, life, love letter, philosophy, positive thoughts, Self Reflection
  • April 10, 2025

    I’m So Tempted to Start a YouTube Channel… But Where Do I Begin?

    Lately, I’ve found myself daydreaming about starting a YouTube channel. I’ve always loved creating content, whether it’s for my podcast, Artifacts & Anecdotes, or sharing my photography with friends. But YouTube? It feels like a whole new world. And to be honest, I’m a little unsure about where to even start. I’ve been tossing around… Continue reading

    art, artistic, Authenticity, Blogging, creative, digital art, ipad
    content creation, creative-art, enneagram, enneagram4w5, infj, MBTI, Vlogs, YouTube
  • April 9, 2025

    Submerged in Relief: My First Bath After Surgery

    In the quiet of the afternoon,I sank into the water,The heat wrapping around my bodyLike a slow exhale. The tension, built up over weeks of recovery,Softened in the warmth,Muscles once stiff and soreFinally letting go. Each breath seemed to syncWith the rhythm of the water,A quiet release,A fleeting escape from discomfort. For a moment, I… Continue reading

    Poetry
    baths, little things, muscle aches, recovery, relaxation, reproductive health, tension
  • April 9, 2025

    Finding Joy in Movement: My Love for Music and Exercise

    What’s the most fun way to exercise? My favorite way to exercise is by dancing around the house to great music. There’s something freeing about moving to the beat, letting go of any stress, and just enjoying the moment. When I’m not dancing, I also love getting on the elliptical while listening to music. It’s… Continue reading

    Blogging
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1903, dance, exercise, MUSIC, self expression
  • April 9, 2025

    INFJs and Narcissistic Abuse: A Personal Reflection

    Being an INFJ feels like existing in a world that isn’t quite made for you. We’re the dreamers, the idealists, the ones who are wired to understand people’s pain, often before they even realize it themselves. We seek to help, to heal, and to guide others through their darkest times, sometimes without even being asked.… Continue reading

    infj, MBTI, relationships, Self Reflection
    deep-thoughts, infj, Lauren Sapala, MBTI, mental health, narcissistic-abuse, narcissists, Self Reflection
  • April 8, 2025

    Electric Reverie

    In the quiet dark,Pain whispers, yet still I create—Silent strength unfolds. Continue reading

    creative, deep-thoughts, digital art, drawing, ipad, procreate, sketch
    art, creative-art, creativity, dark, drawing, feeler, femininity, nudity, procreate, rain, Self portrait, storm
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I’m Stefanie, a reflective soul, a creative thinker, musician, educator, and an INFJ navigating life’s complexities one thought at a time.

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